Does the fear of not being 100% right keep you from sharing your skills, your gift, your message: your product or service? The fear of people speaking up against what you shared – maybe even in a very hateful way?
I recently read the InstaStory of one of the influencers I am following – she shared hate posts that she received from people following her and criticising her that ‘what she is doing is fake’ because she promotes environmental protection and still uses the airplane + travels to popular and hence polluted tourist destinations.
It got me to realize that stepping into the light and sharing our message – our gift, skill, what we stand for – is not about bringing out the perfect product or service. It is not about everything we do being right and 100% aligned from the point we publicly share it onwards.
Being ready to step into the light and sharing your gift means that you are ready to learn and bring to perfection your gift – your product, your service – faster than by any other means, through the feedback of other people.
Of course not through the hate feedback. This is where people that do not take responsibility for themselves, projecting and drop on others what they themselves avoid doing and then blame the other people for not delivering. I personally have such messages deleted before even reading them as I am ready to interact with people that are able to voice genuine criticism only.
But through the reactions, be it loving, appreciating or critical, of other people. Because the reactions of our environment serve us as a guide that we don’t have and will never get by ourselves.
When we fear to take this step, there may have been a time in our lives – looong ago when we were still so young and vulnerable – where we experienced that speaking up and sharing ourselves is only safe when we are 100% right. That, when we are not right it is not safe to speak to the people and something may happen to us …
Every situation that leads you to rather get invisible instead of sharing your message, your product/service with your community, is a result of such early experiences that get triggered.
Know, trust and feel within yourself that you are an adult now. You are safe to say whatever, whether it is right or wrong!
In order to shape that raw diamond that you carry within yourself, it is beautiful when you start sharing yourself, when you start using the feedback of others, encouraging AND critical. To shape your raw diamond into the shining product or service that you were born to share with the world ?
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Happy MoondayMagicing <3
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Its this weeks Moonday Magic, so try the exercise here, there and everywhere, in the office/ on the road/ at home, throughout the coming days – AND let me know how it works its magics for you!
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*Moonday Magic are little bodyworks and kinesiology exercises that I gift myself to start the week ahead full of energy, inspiration, joy and movement. I share them with you, so you can gift yourself, too. Its the moon, that gives the feminine in ourselves energy. Its such little movement exercises that make us feel the magic in our own bodies and have us put our magical products and services out there. Make Monday your moon day, fill your week with magic! Moonday Magics are intended as inspirational stories for you to generate the energy you need in a self-reliant manner: while they do reflect my own experiences & understanding of our bodily functioning, they are not intend to reflect the latest state of science.